Anxiety and Sleeping Fears
I admit that with us being off of school so much in the last couple of weeks, bed times have been less consistent and I've been a little more willing to cuddle past bed time, let her fall asleep on the couch, etc. Last night I was determined to make her stay in bed if she got up. At 3:15 this morning, she came wandering into my room once again. I walked her back to her room, tucked her in, and tried to leave. Let's just say the next 45 minutes were unpleasant. Every time I tried to leave her room, she chased me screaming. It was painful to watch - and at 3:15 in the morning, I admit I was a wee bit cranky! After nearly an hour, she calmed down and we discussed her fears at length. I still ended up taking her to the guest room to sleep. Even laying beside her, she wasn't able to go back to sleep until I wrapped both arms snugly around her.
Now, here are some things that I do know. When we discuss her fears, they are consistent. She is afraid 1 - that something bad is going to happen to me, her dad, or her sister and 2 - that she is afraid in the dark when she is not with an adult. What I don't know is why all of a sudden these fears have developed. We have been in our new house now for almost 7 months. There have been two things that have happened that she has mentioned which could play a part in her fears. One, we saw a bad car accident happen in front of us a few weeks ago. We were the first on the scene and Derek & I both got out of our car to help the victims. She was visibly upset by it. Two, our sweet little 12 year old friend, Kylie, passed away from Cancer a couple of weeks ago. She has asked many questions since then.
So, if these are the triggers of her fears, what do I do to calm them? I've offered to keep lights on at night. I check in on her more often. I pray with her. I diffuse essential oils before bed. We discuss in length about her fears and concerns. I try to reassure her. I'm at a loss as to what else to do.
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